Hi everyone

[abby]

Hey there, everyone!

I’m new to this board, but it looks like there is a lot of action going on here, which is exactly what I like! My name is Abby and I have to admit that I absolutely LOVE to tease guys! There is nothing more exciting than seeing a nice, hard, throbbing cock not getting any release. Which of course only leads to your frustration and my imminent pleasure. I love touching my slippery pussy as I think of all of you men out there, desperately needing to cum, while you just stroke away, never getting the true pleasure that you crave. While I cum and cum again... isn’t life great?

[smirnoff]

hello abby, you sound great. im new here to
yesterday i posted a message saying that more people should go to the chat rooms do you wanna help out?

[whirlingskirt]

~Welcome to the Forum~

I hope you will find plenty here to entertain and amuse you.

To answer yur question: ""Isnt life great""

My answer: ABSOLUTELY!

The guys here are WONDERFUL, supportive, interesting and fun. There is something for everyone!
Especially us :wink:

[Jer]

Hi abby,

Welcome to the World of T & D. Want to tell us a little more about what you like? What's your favorite way to tease your guy(s)? How long do you think a man should be kept denied? Ever used chastity devices on a guy?

Regards,

Jer

[wt1262001]

Welcome to the group, Abby!

i am sure You would meet a lot of new people here and i hope that You would ENJOY Yourself here ...

:twisted:

[abby]

Thanks to all of you for the warm welcome! I guess I have a few questions to answer from some of you, so here goes.

Smirnoff, welcome to you too, my fellow newbie! I would like to get in on a chat sometime with you, finding a good time is the hard part. But I’ll try to help you out!

Jer, where do I start in responding to your questions? Which are all very good, by the way! I guess starting at the beginning makes the most sense. I’m new to this board, but not to the world of T&D. I have been enjoying that for quite a few years now. I think I was one of those cases where my hubby should have been a little more careful with what he wished for…because he definitely got it, and then some!

As far as what I like, one of my favorite teasing techniques is to pour oil all over his cock and balls, stroking really lightly, then speeding up, slowing down, etc. driving him absolutely crazy for at least an hour. Of course if he is ready to cum at all during that time, I simply grab the base of his cock and clamp off his orgasm. Never any cumming without permission! But then I will be nice and let him lick my pussy, bringing me to one incredible orgasm after another. If he is lucky, I’ll tease him some more. But he almost always just goes to bed denied.

And yes, I do have to lock him up sometimes in a CB2000. I prefer not to have him locked up whenever he is around me though. I like to be able to touch him and keep him hard all the time! It’s when I’m not around him that he gets himself into trouble and masturbates without permission. The CB2000 is my insurance policy that he won’t be doing that.

As far as how long a man should be kept denied…that just depends on the man that I am denying! For a guy who never goes more than a day without cumming, I would settle for a week of denial to start. For my hubby, the longest I have denied him has been 3 weeks, but that was with a lot of teasing every day for those weeks. He told me afterward that those 3 weeks seemed more like 3 months of not being able to cum! Which got me so incredibly wet. As a matter of fact, I am so wet right now just talking about this that I think I’m going to go and have that taken care of before I have to go to work!

Everyone have a nice day…I’m sure I will!

[spankme]

Dear Abby (don't ya just love it),

You've just made a lot of frustrated cocks hard with that letter.

A thought: Perhaps you should have your husband join the site, too. Take a look around for letters from MistressKytten and kyttensboytoy to see how it works when you take the T&D D/s thing public. You might find it a lot of fun.

Either way, welcome!

spank :D

[Jer]

<<As a matter of fact, I am so wet right now just talking about this that I think I’m going to go and have that taken care of before I have to go to work!>>

Abby,

I am delighted to have been of such service. :)

Warm regards,

Jer

[subcumboy]

Abby,
Hello..You sound like a lot of fun. Welcome! i for one will be looking forward to hearing more from you...

[yonho]

Hi all,
I'm Yonho, Abby's husband. spankme suggested I become a member as well. I was a member already, I'm just quieter. I was planning on posting, but hadn't gotten around to it yet. I hadn't been to this site for a few months at least until last week. It seems much improved. I like the forum so far, it seems like a good group. Anyway I'm sure you will be hearing more from both of us.

[MistressKytten]

Welcome Abby and yonho - nice to have another active couple in the mix! I would love to chat with both of you in the chat rooms and exchange ideas....could lead to some very interesting nights, don't you think, Abby?

Miss Kytten
:)

[cafe_guzzi]

Hi Abby! Thanks for the thought! The idea of no release, lots of frustration, and the enevitable pain to follow all for YOUR please is why we (the guys!) are here!

Hope to someday to rock hard and dripping for you! and then, just 'put it away!' :lol:

Peace!!

[abby]

All of these responses just keep getting better and better! This is great!

Dear spank, you go right ahead and just say anything to Dear Abby. Especially when you are making comments about all of those frustrated cocks getting hard. Now that sounds wonderful! Uh oh, I’m getting started…beginning to feel a little wet spot in my panties…

Jer, I am glad that you could be of such service as well! I’ll take that service anytime! FYI, I was able to enjoy several incredible orgasms today and at the rate I’m going I will experience several more soon. Visions of frustrated, throbbing cocks running through my mind… Oh yes, I’m going to definitely be cumming again before this night is over…

Subcumboy, all I can say is that I like to have a lot of fun! I also like to talk so I’m sure you will be hearing plenty from me…I hope to keep hearing from you as well…

Dear Miss Kytten, thank you for the welcome! I would love to meet you in the chat rooms and exchange ideas. Two devilish minds plotting together… Oh yes, I think we could have some very interesting nights indeed… mmmm… I’m really getting hot now!

Cafe guzzi, so tell me…since I provided you with such nice thoughts…what’s wrong with now? I rather like the idea of you being rock hard and dripping for me…then just having to put it away. You keep me posted on that!

My Dearest Yon, let me just take these wet panties off…I’ve got plans for you!

Abby

[wt1262001]

Enjoy Yourself, Abby. Well, i guess Yonho must be enjoying himself too ... ~smiles~

Do keep us posted on what happened!!! i am sure that A/all of us would like to know :)

<looks down, hmm .. not hard ... ~winks @ WhirlingSkirt~>

:twisted:

[Jer]

<<Jer, I am glad that you could be of such service as well! I’ll take that service anytime! FYI, I was able to enjoy several incredible orgasms today and at the rate I’m going I will experience several more soon.>>

Abby,

You must be very much in control of your orgasms - either that or very horny. :) How many per day do you average? I take it the challenge in being of service to you is not in satisfying you, but rather in remaining unsatisfied oneself, true?

<<Visions of frustrated, throbbing cocks running through my mind… Oh yes, I’m going to definitely be cumming again before this night is over…>>

My goodness, a woman who knows how to spell "definitely"! You are indeed a jewel among gems Dear Lady. I hope, with Yon's help, you were able to enjoy a memorable evening.

Warmly,

Jer

[abby]

Jer, since you are wondering, I have been very horny lately…and still am. When I am feeling like this I can average anywhere from 3-6 orgasms a day. There have been times when I have had more than that. On a regular basis though it’s 1-2. However, I can exhibit control and go without an orgasm for days at a time.

>>I take it the challenge in being of service to you is not in satisfying you, but rather in remaining unsatisfied oneself, true?<<

As you so eloquently put it, the challenge in being of service to me DOES often come from someone remaining unsatisfied. The truth is that I love being in control and hearing a man beg me to let him cum, only to laugh at him as his frustration mounts. I get very turned on by that. Oh yes, I am extremely satisfied by one’s denial. For in one’s denial a stronger desire arises to please me and satisfy my every whim, which I always take full advantage of.

Now here’s a quick little update for you all. The other day was truly incredible. I actually lost count of how many times I came. Needless to say I fell asleep feeling very content. I also put Yon to good use the next morning. Let me just say that waking up and having an orgasm is definitely a great start to the day! To give credit where it is due, Yon has gotten quite good at being able to make me cum in a relatively short amount of time. He knows exactly what to do to get me going. But hey, as the old adage goes, practice makes perfect!

Abby

[Jer]

Jer, since you are wondering, I have been very horny lately…and still am.

To what do you owe this oh so erotic state? How fortunate you are to be able to take such delicious advantage of it.

When I am feeling like this I can average anywhere from 3-6 orgasms a day. There have been times when I have had more than that. On a regular basis though it’s 1-2. However, I can exhibit control and go without an orgasm for days at a time.

My compliments. The last time I managed six in a single day was after a week of almost constant arousal while locked in a variety of chastity devices. At that point I did not simply need relief, I was utterly desperate. One or two a day is also my norm however. I can go without for a few days if I am very busy, but not if I have free time unless it is locked up.

As an aside, I find that after a period of denial running four days or more the first orgasm although wonderful seems primarily to be pressure relief, the second and even the third if lucky are mind-blowers. Do others reading this have similar or different experience?

The truth is that I love being in control and hearing a man beg me to let him cum, only to laugh at him as his frustration mounts. I get very turned on by that.

One is compelled to ask if the arousal arises from the act of denying him, from laughing at him or from observing his frustration. What specifically among those turns you on. Would you still, for example, turn on in the absence of ridicule, or in the face of his calm acceptance?

I actually lost count of how many times I came. Needless to say I fell asleep feeling very content. I also put Yon to good use the next morning. Let me just say that waking up and having an orgasm is definitely a great start to the day!

I admit to having forgotten days later how often I orgasmed on a particular day, but I do believe I have never actually lost count while it was happening. :) You must have been thoroughly distracted.

There was a time when having an orgasm first thing after awakening was delicious, but lately it seems more enjoyable to be fully awake first and to deny it for at least a little while. I suspect that would change were I to go without for seeral days.

Thank you for this conversation. It is most uh...interesting. ;)

Warmly,

Jer

[MissKyttenspet]

Dear Abby and yonho....
Cheers, and welcome to the fray.... i am sure Y/you will both enjoy Y/yourselves greatly here, i know W/we do. Have fun and i hope to see you around.....

Cheers,

pet

[No-Play]

Abby & yohno......... good to see you both here. We have met before on ntc boards but they seem to have changed somewhat of late! Enjoy!

No-play

[abby]

Thanks for the welcome MK's pet. Yon and I are both enjoying our visits here so far.

Hey, No-Play doesn't necessarily mean no fun does it? (How's my memory?) Of course I remember you! Nice to hear from you! How is Mrs. No-Play?