Some advice?

[jeffrey_2000]

Hi! I'm Sasha. I just made this account for my bf so that hopefully he'll learn a thing or two ;)
Jeffrey and I are wanting to add a T&D element to our play, but I have no clue about how to do any initial training type things, and Jeffrey is pretty much new to this whole thing and as much as he is enjoying it he is having a hard time adjusting without that initial training...

I've been both in control and being controlled and loved both, so I'm hoping we can do a switch arrangement (I'm in control one month, him the next..). Can anyone help me out on a good way to get this started?

Here is the real problem... After working full time for a couple years I finally have the money to leave state and go to college and I'm going to do just that in a week or two. We are okay with that (we got engaged a few months ago), but we won't be able to talk very often so trying to do a T&D relationship is out of the question. I have been thinking about finding someone else to start him off being controlled, at least until I can afford internet again. Is this a good idea or a bad idea?

Thanks for the help!
Sasha

[wt1262001]

Sasha: actually it would be better if You did the T&D Yourself ... Your actual supervision would be more "encouraging" to him .. This is what i feel ... :)

~giggles~ i like switching too ... well, Your kind of pursued switching relationship sounds very enticing to me ...but sadly, i do not have a gf much less an engagement.

Well, the web chat here is a nice place to start, another place would be alt.com *ss*

Alternatively, You can give him the command not to cum until You have found Internet and then Domme him over Yahoo IM .. *giggles*

[MistressKytten]

Sasha, the best way to learn is to watch ....... join the chat in the teasing room and 'listen' to what goes on there. I think it will give you a good starting point from which to work. Or if you are looking for very specific advise, I don't mind if you PM me.

Miss Kytten
:wink:

[MistressKytten]

Sasha, the best way to learn is to watch ....... join the chat in the teasing room and 'listen' to what goes on there. I think it will give you a good starting point from which to work. Or if you are looking for very specific advise, I don't mind if you PM me.

Miss Kytten
:wink:

[jeffrey_2000]

Alternatively, You can give him the command not to cum until You have found Internet and then Domme him over Yahoo IM .. *giggles*

Hehe... I wanted to do that at first... But it will probably be 6 months or more before I have internet access after I move, and I don't want to be extreme enough to make him wait 6 months ;) The longest I'd want to make him wait at a time is a week... Usually just a day or two though, he isn't used to being controlled..

I found the random tease and made him do that a couple times last night then told him to go to bed :twisted: When I joined him in bed a couple hours later I had to let him cum. I can't figure out how I'm going to be able to go without the taste of him cum long enough to tease him :)

How do I get into the chat rooms? It doesn't seem to be working on my bf's computer.

Thanks!
Sasha

[wt1262001]

But it will probably be 6 months or more before I have internet access after I move, and I don't want to be extreme enough to make him wait 6 months ;)


awwwww ... You are so nice to him .... *giggles* Well, then perhaps You can put a little devilish twist in it and give him only permission to cum over the phone and make him beg over the phone ... *giggles* Well, You can Domme him for a month and he can Dom You for another month ... he gets to cum only 4 times every month and You get to cum only 4 times the next month .... *giggles with lust*


How do I get into the chat rooms? It doesn't seem to be working on my bf's computer.


Perhaps You can try installing IE 6.0 and click on the link 'Web Chat' on the left of this website, followed by 'Enter the chat' and You are in!!! :)

i wish You and Your boyfriend all the best and please let us know what happened ... :)

~smiles~ :twisted: