A question for the ladies ...

[spankme]

... have you ever experienced orgasm denial (other than from a crummy lover, lol)?

Has this been active (teasing and denying) or passive (wearing a chastity belt)? Did it make you more empathetic? Did it contribute to your desire to tease and deny boys?

[Four_Inch_Heels1]

Dear spankme,

No, I have never experienced orgasm denial. The thought doesn't appeal to me in the least.

[Four_Inch_Heels1]

Dear spankme,

No, I have never experienced orgasm denial. The thought doesn't appeal to me in the least.

[spankme]

Dear Heels,

We gotta find a way to cure that stutter.

i appreciate your affirmation. Have you looked at the Female Orgasm thread? i think i got the answer i was really looking for ... ultimately i want to understand the appeal of T&D to women. Hence, the what do i get out of it if i'm a woman into denial approach.

FYI, though this thread generated little response, i've found some of the private conversations with Dommes who switch and pro-Dommes who have done their time as subs to be really fascinating. Walk a mile in my shoes, and all that jazz.

Thanks, again,
spankme 8)

i'm done writing now; it's time to "Submit"

[Four_Inch_Heels1]

Dear Heels,

We gotta find a way to cure that stutter.

LOL spanky!

I thought my postings were appearing twice because I was clicking on "preview" and then, "submit". But, I've stopped that now, and it's still happening!

Oh well, it makes me unique I guess! :oops:


i'm done writing now; it's time to "Submit"

Ahhhh.....now I understand why there are sooo many postings from you!

:wink:

[spankme]

Dear Heels,

i have been "Submit"-ing a lot the last couple of days. However, i just realized it's most often to you.

Bottoms up,
spank me 8)

[SilkenBunny]

Well, *I'm* into my own orgasm denial, though to be honest, I'm more of an orgasm *delay* chick, and to be fair, I've had such little lover experience I never got the chance to test it out with a lover. The idea of being denied orgasm, being dominated, turns me on. I can't really say why... why does it turn men on? Is it because its the exception to the rule, something new to try, going against the societal image of the dominant male?
Granted, my idea of being teased is sort of two fold... on the one hand, I'm being denied the release I desperattely want, but on the other hand, I'm getting the full attention and affection from whoever is teasing me. But once again, that's just in my head. I've had a sex a few ties in real life, but like I said, I wasn't ever with my partner long enough to actually do experimenting into other areas.
Ironically, it was my partners who had the problem reaching climax... and not for my lack of trying mind you. I did what I could, but they couldn't get themselves to open up enough to really get into it. Lack of real passion, if you will.
Anyway, it's ironic, because on the one hand, I got the most fun out of the sex, but on the other hand, they were experiencing what I would rather have experienced.
Who knows... maybe some day I'll find a lover I can be compatible with. but until then, I'll masturbate, and fantasize that its another person controlling my hand, and determining my right to orgasm.

[spankme]

Dear Bunny,

As a red-head, i just want you to know I resemble that last remark.

spankme (red-head and red-butt) :oops: