Advice needed

[TeasingTemptation]

I didn't know where to put this, so I just put it in off-topic to be safe :)

Okay, I started seeing a guy a little while ago, and he absolutely loves going down on me. He hasn't had much experience with "kinky" stuff, but he likes the idea of giving me pleasure without having any for himself.
We were together last night and he asked if he could hold a vibrator in his mouth while I fucked it, above his face. I've done that plenty of times, but usually using a dildo gag. He said he was reluctant to use one, because he didn't like the idea of his mouth being covered up.
So we tried it with a vibrator, and although he did try, he was totally unable to hold it steady, so it didn't really work. I did have a fun time putting all my different toys in his mouth to see which one worked best, but apart from that it wasn't so great.
I'm just wondering if anyone has any ideas about a way round this? Any suggestions as to how a guy can hold a vibrator in his mouth without it moving so much, or any products that could be tried instead of the dildo gag that he refuses to use?

Thanks for any help.

x

[imported_slavejack]

Sounds like a very lucky man to me! *grins*

TT i think, can't find a link, that i have seen vibes that attach to the chin, kind of like the gag that You are referring to. Surely i am not the only one, someone may be able to post a link for You.

Hope this helps some. i am guessing though but surely it would not take much coaxing from You and You could have him gagged and tied to the bed, starting him on a journey of more "kinky" stuff. Just the fact that he is eager to please You without concern for his own pleasure is a big step!!

i hope that it works out for You!!
slave jack

[daquiri]

Sounds like a very lucky man to me! *grins*

TT i think, can't find a link, that i have seen vibes that attach to the chin, kind of like the gag that You are referring to. Surely i am not the only one, someone may be able to post a link for You.

Hope this helps some. i am guessing though but surely it would not take much coaxing from You and You could have him gagged and tied to the bed, starting him on a journey of more "kinky" stuff. Just the fact that he is eager to please You without concern for his own pleasure is a big step!!

i hope that it works out for You!!
slave jack

i think this is what you mean, but i'm not sure... http://www.grownupfun.com/accommodator.html

i'm sure you can find this cheaper and more to what you want...

if he doesnt want his mouth covered, their could be some kind of o-ring gag that may hold a dildo/vibrator better, which unless its the gag overall he doesnt like would solve the covering of his mouth... or something akin to an o-ring gag that you might be able to make yourself... good luck...

[bonkgr]

I found this the other day while I was surfing around... :wink:

http://www.tonguejoy.com/

It looks pretty intriguing...unless you really want a dildo...

Let us know how it works if you decide to get one...

[ass]

haha i find the accomdator quite funny

[phdsub]

I found this the other day while I was surfing around...

http://www.tonguejoy.com/

It looks pretty intriguing...unless you really want a dildo...

Let us know how it works if you decide to get one...


Beware the tongue joy.
I had one and it really was nothing more than a novelity.
They used rubber rings to hold it on your tongue.
Once things get wet... off slids the ring and vibe.
Also the toy didn't seem to hold well against saliva and other, so it would short out. I was really disappointed with it.

[Toy0533]

I've seen the accommodator before & always wanted to try it. ALways wondered if it was sturdy enough to hold position.

JT stockroom has terrific stuff. http://www.stockroom.com/gags.htm
These are gags though but not sure if any might work. I had a "Locking ball gag" the gag part was kind of big. Penis gags might work also.

[billc393]

TT -

You need a 'soft' dildo type vibrator that he can grip with his teeth... this can in deed be a lot of fun especially if you both enjoy a little laughter during sex while you figure it out!!

-bill

[TeasingTemptation]

Thanks for all the advice, everybody. We had a bit of an experimental time yesterday afternoon, with a bit of practice he was able to hold it firmly enough for me to enjoy myself. It still wasn't perfect, but we both had fun with it.

I liked the look of the tongue joy, it's a shame it has those problems. Otherwise I'd have probably got one.